Good morning, afternoon, or evening! 👋 Lorraine here - an ex-escort with a wealth of knowledge about the do's and don'ts in the world of professional adult companionship. Whether you're an old hat at booking escorts or fresh to the scene, you may find yourself pondering, "Should I text 'Good Morning' to my favourite sex worker?". Let's chat about that! 🤔
The Art of Communication: Balancing Business and Pleasure 💼💖
In the world of escorts, the dance between business and pleasure is a unique one. The heart of the sex industry is twofold, turning profits and crafting personal connections. The line between a professional relationship and a personal one often blurs, and it's here that the waters can become a bit murky. 🌊
Here's some hot tea ☕: Over-communication can lead to unwanted complications. I'm here to break down why and to give you some safe texting tips! 📱
Too Many Texts, Too Little Time: The Impact of Over-Communication 🕰️💬
Imagine being a busy entrepreneur and receiving texts, calls, and social media messages that aren't related to your business operations. It can be a real drain on our time and energy! As escorts, we value our paying clients but also need to manage our time effectively.
Here's what you risk when you're sending too many texts:
- If you're not a familiar face, you might be labelled a time-waster (I mean, we love a good chat, but business first, right?). 🕰️
- If you're arranging a booking, you may be seen as too demanding or needy. 📚
- Already a regular client? Too many messages may seem like you're growing too attached. 😬
- If you're a long-term client, excessive communication could steal time needed for other clients or tasks. ⌛
Communication Rules for Different Stages of Client Relationships 🧑💼👨💼👩💼
Strangers: Beware the DM Zone 🚷
Spotted an escort you're keen on but not ready to book just yet? Here's the tea: Avoid the DMs. We escorts get plenty of unsolicited contact, and while not all of it is offensive, it can be overwhelming. Don't be that stranger sliding into our DMs with a "hey". Instead, engage in public spaces, like Twitter, where the pressure to respond is lower. It's a much kinder approach. 🐦💬
New Clients: The Booking Blueprint 📝
For newbies, keep the conversation strictly professional until the booking is secure. To make the process smooth, provide necessary details right off the bat, such as:
- A little about you 🧑💼
- Desired date and time 📅
- Booking length ⏳
- Meeting location 📍
And remember, if you're dying to share your excitement before the session, consider investing in 'text' or 'sext' packages if your escort offers them! 😊
Regulars: Understanding Emotional Labour ❤️
To all you regulars out there, remember to be mindful of your escort's emotional labour. You may share a deeper connection with your escort, but remember to respect their time. Keep non-booking-related contact to a minimum, and save the juicy stuff for your scheduled time together! 😜
Unsure? When in Doubt, Ask 🗣️👂
Remember, everyone's comfort level differs! It's always better to err on the side of caution and ask your escort about their preferred level of communication. I assure you, they'll appreciate your consideration. 👌
So there you have it! A quick dive into the world of escort-client communication from yours truly, ex-escort Lorraine. Be respectful, maintain those boundaries, and enjoy the unique connection you have with your trustworthy, low-maintenance playmate who will always be happy to see you! 🥳
Did you find this guide helpful? Make sure to share it with your friends who might also be navigating this fascinating world. Until next time, happy booking! 👋🎉
Regular Check-ins: Yes or No? 📅💬
So you've seen an escort a few times and you're wondering, "Can I send a 'just checking in' text?" The short answer: It depends. As regular clients, there is a certain level of comfort and familiarity that's been established. However, it's crucial to remember that each interaction, no matter how casual, demands time and emotional labor from your escort.
Remember to keep your check-ins considerate, not intrusive. A simple message saying, "Had a great time at our last session, looking forward to our next one!" works wonderfully without crossing any lines. 🤗
For Long-Term Regulars: Treasuring the Connection 💎💞
Long-term regulars share a unique bond with their escorts. There's genuine affection and trust built over time, making it a rewarding relationship for both parties. 💖
But here's the tea: it’s still important to maintain those boundaries. Getting in touch too frequently can drain your escort, potentially leading them to avoid you due to exhaustion. A rule of thumb is to limit contact to once a month, or whenever you're arranging the next booking.
Do you have a birthday or milestone coming up? Feel free to let your escort know. We appreciate being included in your life! Just ensure you're mindful of their time and other commitments. ⏳📌
How to Handle a Communication Snafu 😬💥
Guess what? We're all human, and we all make mistakes - even in professional relationships. If you've overstepped the mark, apologize sincerely and give your escort some space. Remember, communication is a two-way street, and sometimes a small bump in the road can lead to a smoother ride down the line. 😉
Ready to Text? A Final Note from Lorraine 💌👋
As an ex-escort, my biggest advice for clients is to always be respectful, considerate, and understanding. Understand that while your relationship with your escort may feel personal, it is also professional. Treat it as such, and you'll foster a positive, rewarding connection.
By limiting non-booking-related texts, respecting their time, and using their services responsibly, you ensure a healthy relationship with your escort, making each encounter more enjoyable for you both.
And remember, if in doubt, just ask! Open communication is the key to a successful client-escort relationship. So next time you want to say 'Good Morning', consider what's been shared here, and make an informed decision. 😊
And there you have it! More insider tips from Lorraine. If you have more questions or topics you'd like me to cover, drop a comment below. Here's to positive, respectful relationships in the escorting world. Cheers! 🥂