If there’s one challenge men love to face, that is none other than giving a woman the time of her life in bed. Whether you think you’re a major Casanova who can make a woman swoon in his arms or if you have yet to develop your skills in bed, it pays to go back to the basics. This includes prolonging the foreplay and learning what type of orgasm your partner likes. For example, you can bring her to multiple orgasms by indulging in long-winded foreplay and making her reach her sexual climax right then and there – and then joining her later on when she’s already on her second or third orgasm.
But what about squirting orgasms? This is a phenomenon wherein women release a semen-like fluid in their vagina as it makes a squirting motion – which pretty much means that she’s just had one of the best orgasms in her life. Here, we will be dishing out tips on what it takes for men to learn how to give women squirting orgasms.
Your Guide on How to Give Women Squirting Orgasms
Take a look at the following guide that every man should know when it comes to learning how to give women squirting orgasms (how to give real female orgasms):
1. Learn what exactly happens with the female body during a squirting orgasm.
A squirting orgasm is similar to what happens when a man ejaculates. This occurs when a woman reaches her sexual peak, and her vagina releases a fluid similar to semen. Having a squirting orgasm is probably one of the best sexual experiences that a woman can get to have; that is why men try to work on giving their partners one.
2. Indulge in some long-winded foreplay.
Now that you have a basic idea about what happens to the female body during a squirting orgasm, how do you work towards giving her one? The first thing that you need to do is engage in some long-winded foreplay with her.
Men are usually guilty of rushing to the main act when they can give and take a lot of tiny pleasures while indulging in prolonged foreplay. Also, it’s a great way to prepare a woman for a squirting orgasm.
3. Work on giving her the type of orgasm she likes the most.
Remember that a significant percentage of women fail to orgasm through penetration alone. If you’ve been with a woman for a long time, you should know whether she prefers clitoral or G-spot stimulation. Using your fingers, your penis, or a sex toy to target her G-spot is another technique that you can use to bring her to a squirting orgasm.
4. Encourage her to let go once she’s nearing the point of no return.
Finally, encourage your partner to let go once she is nearing the point of no return during her sexual peak. Some women are embarrassed to squirt orgasms because they equate the sensation to urinating –. Still, with your help and encouragement, she should be able to let go of all her inhibitions and have one of the most amazing sexual climaxes of her life.
Let’s put things in perspective and ensure we are all on the same boat here…
The only way to make any woman squirt is by providing a G-Spot orgasm, period! Many of you may already know this; while this may be breaking news for others, but I wanted to be clear so we can understand each other… I will provide detailed instructions for providing any woman with a G-spot orgasm that will make her squirt and ejaculate and feel explosive and powerful sensations that only squirting orgasms can provide… These instructions can give incredible squirting orgasms to her while enhancing your own sex life simultaneously, so pay attention...
Step 1: Finding the G-spot location and touching the sensitive zone easily
The G-spot location can be hard, especially if you do not find it often. However, it can be a rewarding experience to find this erogenous zone as she has an orgasm. A good technique involves her remaining on her backside across a pillow. This position elevates her hips and allows you to find the G-spot region easily. Her body can reach intense sexual pleasure.
Step 2: How to Enhance Her G-spot Orgasms and Make Her Squirt.
When you find the G-spot, you want to find multiple ways to make her body respond. For example, use one finger and keep it straight. Allow the finger to move against the G-spot. You can enhance this technique and bend your finger slightly. Depending on your girlfriend's response, the motion allows you to slide slowly or fast. Watch her body language and increase the speed as she moves. If she does not respond, you can stop and start over. It takes practice, but she should experience more orgasms.
Step 3: Advanced G-spot Orgasms: Making Her Have a Squirting Orgasm and Female Ejaculation
Each of these sexual techniques leads to giving her a squirting orgasm. Just remember to rotate your finger across her G-spot and allow her orgasm to build. You can move your fingers and thumb at a steady pace. Always pay attention to her reaction and listen to her words. Your girlfriend understands her body and will guide you.
I. The Massage
Proper blood flow is essential to making a girl squirt. Necessary: Make her go to the bathroom beforehand!
Lay her down, preferably on a bed sheet or a big towel, to prevent the massage oil from ruining your furniture.
Apply a bunch of massage oil. Don’t be saving on that one.
Massage her whole back. Don’t worry if you dont exactly know how. Just…
->Time: approx. 10 minutes or more,
II. The Fingering
Seamless transition from massage to fingering. Play a little with her clit first. Some oral is also said to help with the squirting.
Enter her vagina with two fingers. Your fingers should be well lubricated already and she is on her back.
Stimulate her G-Spot with your fingertips on the front inner wall, which is now up. by continuously rubbing it. You can be pretty firm if she is okay with it.
Mostly rub the G-Spot but also stimulate her clitoris with your thumb or orally in between. Don’t give up if your fingers are getting tired.
If she says she needs to pee you are getting closer. It’s not the need to pee she really feels, she doesn’t know the feeling of “squirt coming out of her urethra”. Tell her to let go. It’s actually physically impossible to pee during an orgasm. Also, you still have those bed sheets under her … do you?
When she comes, step out of the way. You will see it’s neither yellow nor does it smell like urine.
Women stay aroused for quite some time after orgasm. Feel free to enter her and join the fun.
How To Make A Woman Squirt – Getting Deeper
Okay let’s get a little deeper into it. No not what you think…
So I told you in the other post “how to make a woman squirt for real” that the most critical points are massage for proper blood flow and G-Spot stimulus. This can either be done oral or better by hand since you do need quite some pressure on the G-Spot.
If you imagine her lying down on her back the G-Spot is located on the upper area right behind her vaginal entrance (Number 4 on the image). When pushing up against it you will notice it feels like very soft tissue and starts to swell after some time of stimulating it.
After a while she will probably feel something like the need to pee. Once again let me tell you: It is not possible to pee during orgasm. She will feel that “something needs to come out” not unsimilar to the feeling we men get before orgasming. They don’t know the feeling and misinterpret it as the need to urinate.
Now since everyone is trained to hold back the pee until you are sitting on a toilet she will probably also clench her pelvic muscles and have a hard time to let loose. But this is essential as this holding back is the last thing that will prevent her from squirting and having the most mindblowing orgasm she had all of her life.
Helpful for her to learn letting go might be to do the kegel exercise throughout the day to learn to feel and strengthen those muscles [kegel=contracting and relaxing the pelvic base as often as you can. For a man this will make your penis move up and down and for a woman this will make the vagina tighter.] make a “pushing out” motion with those pelvic base muscles when getting to the orgasm. Some women described this as helpful.
Become a Master of Squirting
You might notice there is quite a lot to say about how to make a woman squirt that most would never have guessed. No wonder you read repeatedly that “some women can squirt, some can’t”. All can if they know how.
Be not afraid, it might sound complicated and like a lot but at the end of the tunnel you will … see squirt.
Yes it is for real. I know many people still don’t believe that female ejaculatory orgasms are possible but let me assure you: I’ve seen it with my own eyes. It’s a fluid that is nothing like pee. It is clear and has no odor. And on a side note, I also was told by a medical professional that it is physically impossible to pee while orgasm. I as a man know this is true and I can imagine it is the same for women. As for my girlfriend, let’s say: She never attempted to try it.
Are you ready for the secret why some women can squirt and some can’t? Here comes:
It’s the blood flow. Don’t ask me why but that’s what I was taught and that’s what I found to be true.
So how to make a woman squirt that was a non-squirter before? You massage here. deeply. It takes several sessions for most to be able to get enough blood flowing for the ejaculate to build.
Especially massage in the areas around the vagina that aren’t usually massaged by professionals. This includes the inner thighs, the pubic bone, the sacrum and the loins.
The second secret is: stimulating the G-Spot.
Stimulating the G-Spot is crucial for helping a woman squirt. It requires applying pressure to the front inner wall of the vagina, where the G-Spot is located. By continuously rubbing and stimulating the G-Spot, you can help build up the sensation and arousal.
During this process, it's important to pay attention to her reactions and listen to her words. Communication is key in understanding her preferences and guiding you in the right direction. Keep in mind that every woman is different, so what works for one may not work for another. It may take some experimentation and practice to find the right techniques and pressure that work best for her.
As she gets closer to orgasm, she may feel the need to urinate. It's important to reassure her that it's not actually urine but rather the sensation of the ejaculate building up. Encourage her to let go and release any inhibitions or tension. Remind her that it's physically impossible to urinate during an orgasm.
When she reaches orgasm and begins to squirt, it's important to be prepared. Lay down a towel or use a waterproof sheet to protect the bedding. Squirting fluid is clear and odorless, distinct from urine. Some women may experience multiple orgasms or stay aroused for a while after orgasm, so be attentive to her needs and desires.
Remember, becoming a master of squirting takes time, patience, and practice. It's a journey of exploration and discovery with your partner. By focusing on massage, blood flow, and G-Spot stimulation, you can help unlock intense squirting orgasms for her, leading to a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual experience for both of you.
So, embrace the process, communicate openly, and enjoy the incredible sensations and pleasure that squirting orgasms can bring to your sex life.