Girlfriend with male friends, is it ok?
These vultures hang around your girlfriend to use her for whatever they can get while she keeps them around for the same reason. Guy, I am telling you after a while, your girlfriend will give her guy friend a piece of the action for being so dedicated to her. Remember, your girlfriend will rationalize that this guy friend is very good to her because he is willing to do a lot of stuff you do not do with her.
Your girlfriend will casually dismiss you and go to the mall shopping with her guy friend and say to you that her guy friend enjoys shopping and taking her out to dinner; your girlfriend will tell you that you do not like doing these types of things.
While all that may be true, her guy friends' focus is strictly sex. The guy's friend will do anything that he has to do to get that sex. He will hang around as long as he has to and do whatever task it takes for the thrill of sexting with another guy's girlfriend. Think about it; this guy could end up with a girl that he can hit and split it because she has a boyfriend she can not take too much of his time. Some of these guy friend snakes can have a few women like your girlfriend that they get easy sex from. Dude, the worst part in this is that your girlfriend feels perfectly justified in having these guy friend rats around. They are serving her purpose. Your girlfriend will instruct her guy friends to act like they are just legitimate friends.
Now I will tell you a red flag to watch for with your sneaky girlfriend and her guy friends.
If any of these guy friends do not act normal around you, something is happening. The guy friend could act hostile, nervous, or uncomfortable around you. Think about it, why would he be uncomfortable if everything is on the up and up? Another thing to look out for is if she is acting in some ways I mentioned above, like her guy friend.
When your girlfriend has male friends, be on the alert.
Be suspicious and demand that she treats you super, especially well. If she says that her male friend is nice or is good at a particular thing, then you have to reprimand her for that because that can be a subtle blow at you. How can she compliment another guy and put you down in any way? Think about it! Attraction is based on respect and admiration. What is next if your girlfriend can put you down and another man up?
You have to take control of the situation. Girlfriends with guy friends are not allowed. Let her know you see everything for what it is and will not allow her to hang around or communicate with guy friends who are interested in her. Once you communicate with your woman, she will tell you how these guy friends have expressed interest in her. Now you can talk to her about these guys' true intentions in case she was unaware.
Once you have told your girlfriend that you do not want her to hang around these guys, you can step back and chill.
Watch her for the next few days to see if she continues this behavior. If you notice a change, then you are trending in the right direction with her. If she maintains contact with these male friends, you are dealing with a whore. She is a woman that does not mind being the second woman, the jump-off for these other guys. In that case, I suggest you take steps to replace her with a loyal woman.
Many women will say that their guy friends are just friends.
That may be true, but remember what I said about the guy friend's true sexual intentions towards your girlfriend. If your girlfriend knows that these guys have underlying sexual attractions towards them, then why in the world is she hanging around them? There are some real character issues here. If this is a girl that you trust, that's fine, but do you trust these guys?